WORLD WAR III

Do you think UN really decided that there shouldn’t be any War again?? Did we face any war after that? Or are we gonna face one in the near future ? If so, think of the disaster it would create. With so many advancements in technology, won’t it clear us off in a flash ? Nuclear Deal , was it a good idea? So many things would come to your mind, even actor Surya’s 7am Arivu movie was dealing with the Bio war. But, are we in a situation to face all these. Can we fight back if, at this second, you reading this article and the US targets a Nuclear Missile at your residence ??

The Answer is YES. We can fight back. We have all resources to withstand. Then why the hell is this article all about?? I know you’d ask me this question. I am warning you about much more serious issue. It is very common nowadays and multiplying very badly. What am I talking about?? Half of you would have guessed it. Yes ! the four letter word, LOVE. How many cigarettes you smoke a day ? How many beer bottles you drank today ? These are questions of the 70’s. How many lovers you have ? How many have you ditched so far ? These questions are now asked even in the interview nowadays. The reason is checking their managerial skills ? Or positively, checking are we good in relationships ?

I asked my friend some seven or eight months back. How is your love going on? He was very happy and said, I love the relationship and we will win in life and love. Impressive!! I called him back yesterday and asked the same question. He gave the same reply. I was happy he is still ON and fine. As the talk continued, I figured it out that he is now in love with another gal and was mentioning about the current love. For few authentic people, it could be strange but for many this would be very common.

So, is it good or bad ? Is there anywhere written that we should love only one person (I didn’t mention, at a time) and whatever happens we should continue the relationship? I guess not. I personally have met people who are in a relationship for the fifth time and also have met persons who are single at the age of 40, still thinking of their married loved ones. The latter ones are living dead, not using their talents in any form and just living a life awaiting death, hurting themselves and others, not in a mood to earn. The former ones, pretty common, are enjoying their life every second, taking things sportive and moving on, spending what they earn.

It is a war. The ditched ones fighting against their sentiments and the experts are waiting to make their current love successful. Both are two extremes and we have no right to question their sentis. But, what is happening at the middle of this emotional line, the people who are in love and behaving abnormally. They appear very happy, very jovial until a phone call from their loved one is received. A perfect example of a manager, being an MBA student, I would say the person who is able to manage his/her girl/boyfriend maybe girl/boyfriends in some cases. So what crap is in that call that makes my friend dull???, will be the question from all. Only the person who is in the relationship knows it, they say.

People love a person who they believe they can keep them happy. But He/She is fighting for happiness, freedom, love, care and above all, the so called SELF. There are people who are enjoying their relationships even 6 or 7 years later. So are they really the best people. It could also be, they sacrificed lot and appear to be happy. Should one sacrifice or lose the SELF for the relationship. Then what is the use of it ? We are in a relationship to be happy but isn’t it the other way about.

The war is about the ego between the male and the female. So who is gonna win the emotional war? My answer to this is No one. Making your loved one lose is worse than you losing. A guy sacrifices many things for a gal without thinking anything or anyone. But a gal thinks of everything and then decides. The guy is not behaving senseless neither the gal is sensual. It is too personal and it’s only up to the two. And for my dear singles, the person who is in a relationship has only one boy/girlfriend but for the singles, the world is theirs.

On my part, I would say, love the person only because you love them. Don’t love them coz you have to love them. Aaaniya pudungurathum pudungathathum unga ishtam. Choice is yours!

P.S.: The confusion about taking it or not is the beauty of LOVE.